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13 September 2010

Let them choose their own Path

Before I start, i will tell you why I want to discuss the topic of homosexuality in our environment. Beginning of the study because of a lecturer at my university gave me the task of research and i was very interested in this topic. I would like to straighten out the views of people who only see the negative on Homosexuality.
Because of this post it doesn't mean I was one of them or ever felt the same feelings as they. I just wanted to tell you about directly from them, what they've experienced.

Homosexuality is an interest in a romantic and / or sexual behavior between individuals or gender or the same gender.
Homosexuality is one of the three main categories of sexual orientation, along with bisexuality and heterosexuality, the heterosexual-homosexual continuum. General term that is often used in homosexuality are lesbian for women and gay lovers gay lover of the same sex to men, though gay can refer to men or women. Bisexuality is a sexual orientation that has the characteristics of interest such as aesthetic, romantic love and sexual desire for men and women.

Probably 90% of people on this earth of any religion strongly opposed to what they do and in my religion it was also very wrong.
But it would be nice if we wisely respond to their presence and respect what they choose for his life, as long as they are kind to us and respect who we are, so there is no reason to intimidate them.
Because they are the servants of the same God as we
have heart, mind, and affection.

"How would your life be different if ... You stopped making negative judgmental Assumptions about people you encounter? Let today be the day ... You look for the good in everyone you meet and respect their journey."
- Steve Maraboli,


Whatever you Think it is your right ... how to deal with their presence




LESBIAN 



The lesbian said the name originated from a Greek island in the island of Lesbos. Because that's born on the island of Lesbos in the time of Greek poet, Sappho, who believe its origin in the birth of her fellow lovers. Sappho was born 620 BC and he is famous for his poetry that tells his interest in other women, and praise for a woman. Even Plato praised him by saying "Tenth Art Goddess" because of his work.





Sappho

Lesbos island, has now become a place of pilgrimage lesbians morning. Those interested in attending an international women's festival that is held once every year. The festival was originally held in honor of Sappho.











Lesbian is a term for women who directs their sexual orientation to fellow women or also called women who love women can be aroused because the person visually, through the eyes, or auditory, ear, brain, get the stimuli.
Cause:

Biological factors
Biological factors is likely that inborn or genetic abnormalities in brain

Psycho dynamic factors
Disorders of psycho sexual development in childhood or perhaps was once raped by a lesbian, so long remember and want to repeat it because of the sensation.

Sociocultural factors
because the customs which treat the relationship with some reason that is not true.

Environmental factors
someone because of the association with the people around him.








butch portrayed as a figure who, aggressive, active, protect the more dominant and have instincts like men and men have such outfit.




femme is a feminine and gentle figure also loving their unbelievably feminine and a woman completely.





Andro or androgynous in the sense of gender identity, is a person who can not fully match the masculine and feminine gender roles. The andro tend to choose what they prefer depends on the situation and the state of his heart and soul at the time.


From me about them  ..

they did not isolate or be worthy of conversation. sometimes people are just ordinary people who judge them are very sick and in avoiding its existence in society. they do not care what background they could be like that or what factors made them like it.


whether the public has the right to life for them ?


all people have the choice to live,
for me lesbians are those who have not found their identity and to feel comfortable while on the go contrary to the rules or norms that exist in their respective religions. lesbians and gay have their hearts, minds, religion. as well as us "normal people"



why the they should be distinguished?


all have a reason to live, and why they wants to be like that and why they choose their path. because of the rigors of their lives and get wasted intimidation also feel they learn to appreciate their environment. sometimes it's someone like them are those who understand what it called attention, friendship, affection too. :)
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”-marlyin monroe



29 November 2009

terkadang semua hal gak selalu sama seperti yang kita inginkan ;)

gw blom bisa tulis banyak sibuk !!!
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